The Pain of an Imperfect Life

Maybe you’ve come here today because you’re feeling the pain of an imperfect life just like I described in my devotion today.

I understand how you’re feeling. (And there’s a gift to encourage you at the bottom of the page.)

If you’re like me and struggle with the pursuit of perfection, that feeling is even more acute. You’ve worked hard to attain the perfect life that you see in other women’s social media posts, but now you’re exhausted, and…

You truly want the best for the people you love, but you’re driving yourself and everybody else crazy with your out-of-control expectations.

Even though you bust your hump on every little thing, you constantly feel the nagging tug of failure.

You’ve been hiding your true self behind the façade of perfection for so long that you almost can’t remember who you really are.

You’re working hard to build the best life possible, but you have no time to enjoy it.

It’s become so critical to be perfect that every mistake or misstep is crushing.

I’ve been in your shoes, but through the love of truth-telling mentors, God-given aha experiences, and the excavation of wrong beliefs, I’ve moved toward celebrating the woman God has created me to be. Of deeper and more fulfilling relationships. Of kissing perfection good-bye and embracing more joy.

That’s the journey I share in my book Breaking Up with Perfect.

Because of the joy I experienced going through the book with a group of women last summer, I want to extend the Online Book Study to you for free. It’s formatted so that you can access every lesson and resource to work through the book at your own pace. Click here to get all the details and to start.

Note to leaders: There are lots of resources just for you so that you can lead your small group through my book! Please feel free to share all beautiful downloads, extra lessons, and fun videos with your group contained in the Online Book Studyand there’s a Leader’s Guide chock-full of information and help for you. You can buy it by clicking here and scrolling down below the book.

I’d love to be with you in person too! A fun way to launch your study would be to have me come speak at your church. Watch the sample video below, and click here to receive more information about having me at your event from our Proverbs 31 Ministries speaker coordinator.

A Gift for You:

To use the graphic above as desktop wallpaper, click on the size that works for you: (Feel free to download all three. You may have to use a little trial and error like me!)

1900 x 1200

1280 x 1024

1024 x 768

 

signature
Leave a comment here | 2 Comments

Comments

  1. My world has been turned upside down as of last week and my thoughts have gone back to “What did I do wrong? .. What could I have done differently? Maybe I really am …not good enough.” I will be picking up your book again soon along with my Bible. Surely God has a good plan for the mess. I don’t want to live with the pain of regrets. I want to know that even with my many imperfections, I am still loved. Thank you Amy for sharing your experiences, thoughts, and words that will help so many women see (including me) that they are not the only one who struggles the need to be perfect.

    • You ARE love, Mary, by Jesus and by me (and many others I’m sure!!). I’m so sorry you’re hurting, and I’m praying for you as I hit reply. Sending a big cyber hug to you along with my prayers to Jesus.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *